“I’ve fallen madly in love with a woman” – Queer themes in Tove Jansson’s life and work, part 1

After her death, Tove Jansson has become something of a queer icon, inspiring people from all over the world with her fearless life choices and insightful art, which can often be viewed through a queer lens.  She was a bold woman – both through her art and her life choices.

Tove Jansson was not an activist standing on the barricades for queer issues, but the way she lived her life has come to inspire people like it was a political act. 

She was always searching for new ways of expression,  wanting to be free to define herself both in private and as an artist, defying the strict gender roles of her time. Jansson was both an ambitious painter and an illustrator, a writer of adult fiction and picture books for children, and she had relationships with both men and women.

The important thing is to fall in love, gender is secondary

Her approach to love is beautifully stated in the following line, retold by her publisher and friend Helen Svensson in a documentary series about Tove: 

“I always fell in love with a person. Sometimes that person was a man, and sometimes it was a woman. But the important thing was that I fell in love with that person.”

Tove Jansson lived together with a woman for 45 years and had several same-sex relationships before that. She did this completely openly, never trying to hide her sexual identity, even if it was not socially tolerated at the time.

“I’ve fallen madly in love with a woman”

When she first fell in love with a woman, homosexuality was considered a crime and a disease in her native Finland, where it remained illegal until 1971.

In December 1946, when Tove Jansson was 32 years old, she wrote the following words to her friend Eva Konikoff:  

“Something has happened to me that I realise I have to tell you about. I’m so happy, so elated and relieved. You know I feel like Atos’s wife, and I expect I always shall. But what has happened now is that I’ve fallen madly in love with a woman. And it seems to me so absolutely natural and genuine – there’s nothing problematic about it at all. I just feel proud and uncontrollably glad. These last weeks have been like one long dance of rich adventure, tenderness, intensity – an expedition into new domains of great simplicity and beauty.”

Tove Jansson’s secret queer love letters

The woman whom Tove had fallen in love with was Vivica Bandler, an agronomist and a charismatic theatre director. They went on to have a passionate love affair, and Tove was bursting with happiness.

She wanted to tell the whole world about her newfound love, but Vivica wanted to be more discreet. Their correspondence shows the precautions Tove took in order not to disclose to anyone else that she was behind the sudden flood of letters to Vivica.

“P.S. I got my hairdresser to write the brown envelope so you won’t have to start the year with a dreadful scene. I can be sensical! Next time I’ll get the caretaker and after that the grocer.” (Letter to Vivica 30.12.46)

A grandiose expression of love

Vivica is present in one of Tove’s biggest works, a 6×2 meter wall painting called Party in the City for the restaurant at Helsinki City Hall. It was a frecso commissioned by Vivica’s father, who was Chairman of the City Council.

Tove painted herself seated in front of a table, and behind her is Vivica, the object of her secret love, dancing together with a man. (The painting is now part of the collection of HAM, the Helsinki Art Museum, well worth a visit if you’re in Helsinki).

Tuula Karjalainen, who has written a biography about Tove, sees this as a grandiose expression of love, however perhaps not evident for Tove’s contemporaries. 

In the next part of our series on Tove Jansson queer themes, we’ll see how Vivica inspired the Moomin stories and what other interesting gender themes can be found in the Moomin books and comic strips.

The quoted letters appear in Letters from Tove Jansson by Boel Westin and Helen Svensson (translated by Sarah Death), a forthcoming English edition published by Sort of Books 8th Oct 2019

Photos: header image Beata Bergström, Party in the City black and white Per Olov Jansson